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MISTAKE #2:
Trying To “Convince Her To Like You"
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like...
but she's just notinterested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.
Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN
"FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, EVER.
You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with
"logic and reasoning".
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect
to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our
best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.
MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission
In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make
them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman's
"approval" or "permission".
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them...
EVER.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.
But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting
her approval and permission for things", think again.
You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get
ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her
around and want her approval annoy her...
MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought
her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't
treat her even HALF as well as you did?
If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only NATURAL when this happens...
That's right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send a clear message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to
buy your attention and affection".
Your good intentions usually come across to women as
over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation.
That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.
MISTAKE #5: Sharing “How You Feel” Too Early In The Relationship
With Her
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women
is sharing how they "feel" too early on.
Attractive women are rare.
And they get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being
approached in one way or another ALL THE
An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men
who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per week,
and often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.
That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her
running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts
saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.
This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys
who fall for her too fast... and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way...
MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women
Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a
sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is
something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can
tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms"
triggered by things OTHER than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and
unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're
attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks
alone.
If you know how to use your body language and communication
correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual
attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young
woman.
But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.
And ANY guy can learn how...
MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks
One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before
they've even gotten started... because they think that attractive
women are only interested in men who have looks and money... or guys
who are a certain height... or guys who are a certain age.
And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these
things.
But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than
his wallet or his looks.
There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet...
And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one
of these guys.
YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't
rich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and
communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of
powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot,
sexy young woman.
MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for
approval or permission.
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY
THEIR POWER to women.
Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing
whatever the woman wants.
Another bad idea...
Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over...
Women aren't attracted to Wussies!
MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of
Situation With Women
Now I'm going to blow your mind...
A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body
language. That's ten TIMES.
I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out
on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.
And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss
her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she
won't help!
And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...
Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing
her, getting physical... everything.
If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably
screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.
And you KNOW it.
It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one
step to the next with a woman... from the first meeting, all the way
to the bedroom.
MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of
success with women that they truly want.
I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We
don't like to ask for help.
Hey, I've been there myself.
Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be
successful with women...
About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn't
know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was
attracted to.
It frustrated the hell out of me.
One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask
out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still
remember that night... right on the spot I made the decision to do
whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and
dating.
Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things,
I finally figured it all out.
I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost
instantly. I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've dated
nice, normal, regular girls as well.
It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick,
insecure feeling... like I don't know how to meet women... and I
might wind up alone.
I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive
women.
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